Now I’ll give you my own definition of it. I expect you to take notes.

When you look at my body you’ll undoubtedly think: woman, beautiful, or “I wish to worship at Her feet”. Something like that, right? If you’re lucky and have the opportunity to submit to me, you’ll quickly learn that I’m more than this.

I go beyond the expectations you have of a Dominant in a woman’s body. You box me in with your basic assumptions of what a woman can be based on society’s standards, where women belong, and how they should be.

This limited mindset creates boundaries for me, and I refuse them. I’m the Superior here. You are not allowed to set expectations for me; that is my job. I will put you in your place and tell you how to be.  

Imagine trying to fill a pool with an entire ocean. It’s impossible, right? Well, I am the ocean. Your preconceived notions are the pool, and you must get rid of them now.

One example of genderfucking is my preferred honorifics. Unless otherwise stated, you may call me Goddess, God, Mistress, Sir, or Daddy. Additionally, one of my favorite is Most High because it’s genderless.

Assuming that I prefer honorifics that are traditionally feminine is wrong. You’ll be a good pet and regularly ask me what I prefer. I embody all binaries and none of them at the same time. So, at any moment I may want a specific one, or I may not care. Again, asking is key.

When I say “Get on your knees, open your mouth and get ready to worship My cock” and naturally, you obey, I’m not only dominating you. I am also genderfucking you. The patriarchy has always used the fact that they have dicks to mark them as different and the “superior” sex.

I revel in using a dildo as an extension of my power. When playing with anyone who grew up socialized as a man, or assigned male at birth (AKA cis-gendered man), I think  “Here’s a taste of your own medicine, open wide and let it in your mouth and down your throat.”

I take pleasure in using patriarchy’s own tools against them, the ultimate F-you to their oppressive B.S. against women, trans and gender nonconforming people. It’s very satisfying for me.

I will not be limited to society’s expectations of me based on my perceived gender let alone as a Dominatrix. I sure as hell reject those notions.  I am not here to play out society’s beliefs of what my role should be or look like.

Since the awakening of my inner God/dess and Domme I have learned how to take up the space that I deserve in this world, More importantly, the space that I deserve in your world.

Even if I’m feeling masculine I may want you to use She/Her pronouns. Or I might be feeling very feminine but ask you to use They/Them pronouns.

 There is no limit to my gender expression. Welcome to my genderfuck.